It is often common for children to always complain about going to school because it interferes with the fun they may be having while at home. It becomes a great concern when a child regularly insists that he/she does not want to go to school anymore. It is your task as a parent to investigate and determine what made the deeds of your child change suddenly. This is due to the fact that most children will keep to themselves what is happening to them. Below are some of the tips to help a child who hates school discover more.
To begin with, you should check the social life if your child at school. You should look of there have been any fights or quarrels between your child and his/her classmates. If he/she is having fights, see how to resolve this issue by talking to the school counsellor. You can try the reconciliation way so that there can be peace between them. Also check out if there are instances of bullying in the school. If a child is consistently bullied, he/she will be afraid to go to the same school as this creates constant fear in the child. You should talk to the management about the bullying so that students who are bullying will be disciplined or suspended.
Moreover, it is important to check the performance of your child at school. You should look at his/her report cards and see the progress of your child. You should also check out the assignments he/she is given and how she performs. See the areas your child performs well and congratulate him/her to give the child morale. You should assist your child where she did not perform well to expectations, The morale of the child will also be boosted when you as a parent assists him/her in his/her homework or projects. If the child dropped his/her performance, always encourage him that there is room for improve next time. Advise your child that there are other ways of making it in life, education is one of them.
Finally, maybe your child is not comfortable with the teaching ways of his/her teacher. You should ask your child about the teachers who are teaching them. You should be able to find out how comfortable your child is with his/her teacher teaching techniques. If it is the teacher who is making your child hate school, you should sort out the issue with the management of the school, if the teacher does not want to change his/her teaching tactics. Some of the children will also hate school because their teachers are not giving them the attention they want. You should give your child an advise on techniques of attracting the attention of the teacher like by raising a hand.